Everything becomes a little different as soon as it is spoken out loud.
-Herman Hesse
In relationships, communication can either make or break the whole shabang. The problem is, many times I’m scared to voice what I’m thinking in leiu of the possiblity of hurting Chris. I don’t really know how to tell him when I need a bit of time away, not because of anything he’s done, but because I genuinely just want to be by myself. He always seems to take it like he’s done something wrong, and that’s never the case.
With that said, communication also has an integral part of the bedroom experience. How do you really expose your desires candidly and avoid embarassment? It’s just really uncomfortable to me, I guess mainly because I feel like the man kind of “has his way” with the woman. I think that’s why I always liked chat rooms. Total anonymity to fully exposing yourself, without the risk of embarassment or judgement.
How can one inject that feeling of freedom into their own life?
On a lighter note: The world would be a much better place with more masturbation.
